I have fun making these each year and thinking of the perfect message for each family member. This year, the non-personalized cards were train themed, because he loves his trains. Xavi even helped a little by “signing” the backs of each card.
When I put up the April Fool’s day post about a civil wedding, I didn’t bother informing my parents or siblings. They occasionally read my blog, but I didn’t think they’d read that day nor fall for the joke. I was wrong on the latter. My mom read it later in the week and called my dad a little confused. “Am I losing my memory?” she asked him.
He read the post and was fooled too until he got to the end. “You got us good,” he told me.
Sean and I are less than six months out from the wedding. It seems like a lot of time, but we still need to make a bunch of decisions. Some things still on the list:
- Hiring a DJ: This one isn’t easy considering our guest list is quite diverse and we’d like everyone to enjoy themselves. We need a DJ who can play music that will appeal to 4 generations of my Mexican family (nonagenarians to twenty-somethings), Sean’s Jamaican family and our friends.
- Choosing attire for Sean, bridesmaids and groomsmen
- Deciding on hair, makeup, veil and accessories for me
- Decorations: we need everything from flowers to linens
- Invitations: they’re in progress
There’s one big thing we can cross off the list:
Since it was just a civil ceremony with a justice of the peace, we kept it simple with my parents, siblings and grandparents. Sean’s parents and brother Skyped in from New York.
Through this whole process, we’ve wondered if the big wedding was really worth it. Yesterday, we felt like we were missing a lot. We can’t wait to have a few hundred of our friends and family watch us do this a bit more formally and celebrate with us.
Are you in a blogging rut? Need some ideas for blog posts?
Never fear, here’s 10 timely topics. Don’t worry, these haven’t been done to death by bloggers, magazine writers and local TV news.
1. How not to gain weight through the holidays and manage eating at holiday parties. This includes writing about low-fat and low-calorie versions of traditional holiday dishes.
2. Gift guides for everyone, including the neighbor’s dog.
3. How to survive spending time with your family over the holidays and holiday dinners
One of the reasons Sean likes me is because I’m not that nice. I can be mean, sarcastic and snarky. I don’t think it comes across in my blog much because I’m pretty good at self-editing when it comes to writing. In person? A whole other story.
I tried my hand at some and went a little crazy… Continue reading